We live in a culture of busy-ness. Anyone who has spent more than two seconds in this country will come to understand that. In Richard Foster’s book Celebration of Discipline: The Path to Spiritual Growth, he says, “our Adversary majors in three things: noise, hurry,and crowds.” We are often caught up in this whirlwind of doing that we neglect the state of just being. When we allow ourselves and our time to be filled up with stuffwe leave very little room if any for listening for the voice of God. This is an issue I have addressed before in another post called “Listening For Silence In A Blaring World: For God and Self.”
I bring this point up again because I believe this is one of the main challenges of why most Christians are not being led by the voice of God and lack a deep, meaningful relationship with him…because they are frankly, just too BUSY. And when they do get a moment to hear from God, they fall asleep because they are worn out from always being in a HURRY to get things done. But in the words of Carl Jung, “Hurry is not of the Devil; it is the Devil.” Why? Because all of this HURRY and BUSY-NESS keeps us away from God. It blurs our understanding of God. It blocks our ability to hear and listen for God.
I call this the “Martha Syndrome.” In Luke 10:38-42 I see Martha as the American in this narrative.
38 Now as they went on their way, he entered a certain village, where a woman named Martha welcomed him into her home. 39She had a sister named Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet and listened to what he was saying.40But Martha was distracted by her many tasks; so she came to him and asked, ‘Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me to do all the work by myself? Tell her then to help me.’ 41But the Lord answered her, ‘Martha, Martha, you are worried and distracted by many things; 42there is need of only one thing. Mary has chosen the better part, which will not be taken away from her (NRSV; italics is mine for emphasis).’
I want to point out a few things from this passage. 1) Martha “welcomed” Jesus into her home. The world is filled with Christians who have welcomed Jesus into their home. They invite him into their hearts and then go around telling everyone they “know Christ as their Savior.” But then like many Christians do today, Martha got BUSY “work[ing]“ or for Jesus. Slaving in the kitchen, keeping the grounds, being part of Church committees, pastoring, and all sorts of other ministries should never replace the time needed to spend listening for God.
So we come to my second point. 2) Mary “sat at the Lord’s feet and listened to his teaching.” Mary wanted to HEAR from Jesus. She wanted to KNOW him and his teaching. She took the time to FIRST listen to Jesus before she began DOING. What was she doing? She was putting KNOWING God above DOING for God. Why? Because only when we KNOW God will we ever be able to effectively and powerfully DO for God.
You see, the passage says that Martha was “distracted.” She was BUSY DOING. Jesus even tells her that she was “anxious and troubled about many things.” I believe that this is where most Christians in our culture are at. Their anxiety to keep up with the Joneses causes them to be troubled with trying to obtain the American dream. They feel that they have to be busy little bees because that is what everyone else does and a good work ethic means you never stop. Arthur G. Gish says, “We buy things we don’t want to impress people we don’t like.” Does that make any sense to anyone?
We have been sucked into our culture but not the kingdom of God. In the kingdom of God, relationship is everything. We need to be Mary-like Christians intent on LISTENING to Jesus and less Martha-like Christians being distracted by DOING. DOING most certainly has a place, but it is never to replace LISTENING and KNOWING Jesus. Christians that mainly DO but LISTEN little are shallow. Yet Christians that LISTEN to and KNOW God and THEN DO are deep, fruitful, and effective.
Which brings me to my final point. We need to ALWAYS be in the state of LISTENING for God. Even in the midst of the DOING, we need to be able to silence ourselves, to stop and LISTEN throughout the day to what the Lord is speaking to us. If you are at school, block out the noise as you walk down the hallway and LISTEN. As you are driving to and from work, turn off the radio and LISTEN. If you are laying in bed early in the morning, instead of plotting out the day, LISTEN.
I know many people who always do all the talking and hardly ever listen. If I begin to interject a thought, they quickly interrupt and continue talking. I can even tell by their body language and facial expressions if they are listening or not. I have a feeling that those who have trouble listening to their brothers and sisters, probably are not listening to God either. There are many people who are more impressed with the words that come out of their mouths than the words that come from the mouth of God. Jesus said that humans live by “every word that comes out of the mouth of God.” Notice that he does not say, “humans live by doing all of the talking.”
Therefore in the words of James 1:19: “Be slow to speak and quick to listen.”

















